Grace

You are too loved for that.

You are too loved for that.

Dear friend,

 

You are too loved for that.

 

I hear you wondering why you weren’t good enough.

 

I hear you saying you deserve the wrong things that happened to you.

I hear you defending the people who used you.

I hear you questioning your abilities after they have been questioned by others.

I hear you pleading for the attention of someone who doesn’t value you.

 

I hear you.

And I understand you because I have been there, too.

 

But take a glimpse of yourself through my eyes.

 

Can you see it now? Can you see the strong, capable, beautiful, worthwhile person I see?

A person who deserves all the good that the world has to offer.

A person who I admire.

 

And if you’re not able to see yourself through my eyes, maybe instead remind yourself of how God sees you.

 

Made in His image.

Genesis 1:27

 

Fearfully and wonderfully made.

Psalms 139:14

 

A chosen people, God’s special possession.

1 Peter 2:9

 

Child of God.

John 1:12

 

You are valued.

You have worth.

 

Don’t let the people around you tell you any different.

Don’t let yourself tell you any different.

 

You are too loved for that.

Posted by Leanne DeKay in Grace
That day we laughed instead.

That day we laughed instead.

That day we laughed instead.

 

You know those moments when your kids or maybe your students do something they’re not supposed to…

but it’s really funny?

 

And keeping a straight face takes every ounce of self control you have?

 

Well as a teacher, I’ve gotten better at keeping that straight face when necessary.

But that day I failed.

Listen, it was just too good.

 

It involved rocks and pants,

and I’ll leave the rest to your imagination.

 

But a questionable choice by one student put another student in a predicament

that required my help to get out of and, let’s just say,

it wasn’t going well.

 

In the midst of the struggle, one student let out a giggle.

And then I was done for.

 

I started laughing before I could stop myself.

And when I started laughing, the whole class joined in.

We just laughed.

Was it something I should’ve been laughing about? Maybe not.

But it was good for my heart.

 

And maybe it was good for their hearts, too.

 

Of course, we want to teach our kids right from wrong.

We want them to learn how to make good choices.

 

But don’t we also want them to learn how to find joy in life?

To smile?

To release the pressures of life?

To know what it is to be happy?

 

I don’t want to forget that.

 

So maybe, even if just for a moment, it’s ok that we don’t take ourselves too seriously.

 

Maybe it’s ok that we laugh instead.

 

 

Posted by Leanne DeKay